Immediate Turn-On
A good date isn't just about having interesting things to talk about. The little comments you make throughout the evening can show that you're paying attention, enjoying her company, and genuinely interested in getting to know her. You don't need a collection of perfect lines, either, because sincere and specific compliments usually feel much better than anything that sounds rehearsed.
1. “I’m Really Glad We Did This”
By telling her that you had fun on your date, you instantly allow the night to become more comfortable for her. You're not just wasting your time there thinking about what time you can leave. She'll also feel more comfortable knowing that you're enjoying yourself.
2. “You Look Great Tonight”
Sometimes a simple compliment is nice to receive. You don't need to make it overly dramatic or focus on specific parts of her body. Saying that she looks great shows that you noticed the effort she put into getting ready.
3. “I Like Your Sense Of Humor”
People tend to love compliments that pertain to their personality. If she's been making you laugh throughout the night, go ahead and let her know that you find her funny. It lets her know that you're attracted to more than just her appearance.
4. “Tell Me More About That”
Having someone ask you questions about things you enjoy allows you to open up more. If she brings up something she enjoys doing, such as a hobby, vacation, or job, tell her to continue speaking about that subject. It shows that you're interested in learning more about something that's important to her.
5. “That’s Really Interesting”
There are many things that you don't need to dive deep into during a conversation. If she brings up a topic that you think is interesting, tell her that you find it interesting. It allows for a smoother conversation and doesn't make her wonder if you're only waiting for your chance to speak.
6. “I Like How Passionate You Are About That”
Passion is always an attractive trait to have in someone. Whether it be about her job, music, animals, vacations, or whatever weird hobby she may have, you don't have to share the same interest to appreciate how much she enjoys it. Letting her know that you appreciate her passion shows that you're paying attention to what makes her happy.
7. “You’re Easy To Talk To”
On dates, there are always those awkward moments and silences. By telling her that you enjoy speaking with her, you can allow the date to flow a bit easier. It also communicates that you feel comfortable around her, which is a nice thing to hear when you're still getting acquainted.
8. “I Like Your Style”
This is always a good one to use if you truly notice something about her. You could say you like her clothes, accessories, or even her hair. A thoughtful observation feels more personal than repeatedly telling her that she's pretty.
9. “You Have A Great Smile”
Telling someone that they have a nice smile is never wrong. If she smiles throughout your date, it's always nice to let her know. Just make sure you're saying it because you mean it rather than treating it like a line you're obligated to deliver.
10. “I Was Curious To Meet You”
If you spoke to each other before your date, it's always flattering to know that the other person wanted to meet you. It lets her know that she left a good impression on you prior to your date. And it never hurts to know that the other person isn't there just to be there.
11. “That’s A Good Question”
Conversations aren't always about the answers to a question. If your girl asks you a smart question or even one that may catch you off guard, let her know that she asked a good question. It can make your date a lot more fun.
12. “I Never Thought About It That Way”
Just because you may not think like your girl doesn't mean you can't appreciate her view on a subject. If she comes up with an idea that you like, tell her that you never thought of it that way. It can also lead the conversation somewhere much more interesting than the usual first-date topics.
13. “You’re Really Funny”
Always let your date know if you find her funny. If she has a witty response to a question you asked or maybe told you something that made you laugh, let her know that she's funny. A simple compliment like this can show her that you enjoy her personality.
14. “I Feel Comfortable Around You”
Comfort is always a good thing to feel around someone. By telling her that you feel comfortable around her, you show that neither of you are trying to be someone that you're not. She'll also feel more comfortable being herself around you.
15. “I Remember You Mentioned That”
Always try to remember little things about your girl. Whether it be a restaurant she likes or a TV show she's watching, if you can remember that information about her, she'll love to know that you cared. It shows that you were actually listening when she told you about herself.
16. “What Would You Do If You Could Go Anywhere?”
Asking your girl what she would do if she could do anything is always a fun question. It opens up more than just what she does at work and when she's free. Maybe you both like to do some of the same things.
17. “I Like Getting To Know You”
This is a nice way to communicate interest without making the conversation feel overly serious. It tells her that you're enjoying the process rather than rushing toward some immediate conclusion about the relationship. It can also create a little warmth when the date has been going particularly well.
18. “You Seem Really Confident”
If your girl is confident, tell her that. Confidence can go a long way when meeting someone new. It doesn't have to be loud confidence, but even if she states an opinion she believes in, that's confidence, so let her know that you think she's confident.
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19. “I’d Like To See You Again”
If you enjoyed your date, let her know that you would like to see her again. Saying it directly saves both people from spending the next several hours wondering whether the other person enjoyed themselves. It also gives the evening a clear and positive ending.
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20. “I Had A Really Good Time With You”
Sometimes the simplest thing to say is the one that works best. Letting her know that you enjoyed spending time together acknowledges the date without putting unnecessary pressure on what happens next. If you mean it, saying it honestly can leave her feeling appreciated as she heads home.
