20 Things Men Do When They're Trying To Play It Cool Around You
When He's Interested but Doesn't Want You to Know
Sometimes a guy can be interested in you while doing everything possible to make it look like he isn't. He might try to act relaxed, unaffected, or completely casual, even when his behavior gives him away. If you've ever wondered whether someone is genuinely playing it cool or simply being friendly, these little habits can be worth noticing.
1. He Suddenly Gets Very Casual
He will most likely start acting cool around you, as if it's no big deal that you are around. He will have a chill tone and won't try to let on that he likes you being there. He could also be acting very differently than how he is with all the rest of the people around him.
2. He Takes His Time Responding
Someone who is trying to play it cool will most likely not reply to you as soon as they get your text. He doesn't want you thinking he's sitting around waiting for your text, even if he actually noticed the notification immediately. The delayed response can be especially obvious when he's normally quick with everyone else.
3. He Pretends He Didn't Notice You
You will walk into a room, and all of a sudden, they know everything about what's going on in front of them. He will look your way and try to look away when you're not looking. That sudden interest in his phone can be a little suspicious.
4. He Finds Reasons to Be Near You
Someone that's playing it cool will try to be near you. He might try to talk to you about what you're talking about, or maybe just be around you. He doesn't necessarily need to start a conversation with you because being around you already gives him an excuse to interact.
5. He Teases You More Than Everyone Else
Playful teasing can become his way of interacting with you without making his interest too obvious. He may make little jokes about your habits, opinions, or something you said earlier. If he remembers tiny details just so he can bring them up later, he may be paying more attention than he's letting on.
6. He Acts Extra Confident
People will act differently when they like someone. Some people will start acting more confident. He might talk a little louder, joke more often, or become noticeably more animated when you're nearby. It can look completely natural until you realize that this version of him seems to appear specifically when you're around.
7. He Tries Not to Look Jealous
When another person starts talking to you, someone who's playing it cool will act like they don't care. They may not try to find out who that person is. But you will notice them acting quiet or being more aware of the conversation.
8. He Remembers Things You Mentioned Once
Someone will remember the things you say. For example, if you say something about liking a certain movie or food, or something you're doing on your day off, they may remember this and try to act casual about it. Someone will remember these little things about you if they like you.
9. He Looks at You When You're Not Looking
He will try to look at you, and when you look their way, they will most of the time try to look away. Most of the time, they won't know you're watching them. Someone that's acting like they don't like you will look your way and quickly look away when you notice.
10. He Suddenly Cares About His Appearance
If a guy likes someone, they will start trying to look better than normal. Whether it's their hair or making sure they have a nice shirt, if his appearance becomes noticeably more important whenever you show up, there's probably a reason for the extra effort.
11. He Tries to Make You Laugh
Someone that is trying to be cute with you will always try to make you laugh. They may tell you jokes or say things that will get you to laugh. Your laugh gives him a little bit of attention without requiring him to admit that he wanted it.
12. He Downplays Compliments
If they give you a compliment, they might try to act cool about it. They may say something funny or act like it's no big deal. Someone who is trying to act like they don't like you will always try to play off their compliments.
13. He Acts Different When You're Alone
They might be around other people and act like nothing is happening. When they're with just you and them, they may become more cool. Acting like they care less about you than they really do.
14. He Starts Matching Your Energy
Someone that is trying to act like they don't like you may try to imitate you. If you're being funny, they'll try to be funny as well. Or if you're having a deep conversation, they will try to stay in that mode. It's another sign that they're trying to act cool around you.
15. He Tries to Impress You Without Making It Obvious
Instead of telling you something about themselves, they will try to bring it up in a casual conversation. Maybe try and talk about something they know how to do or have done in their life. The goal can seem less like bragging and more like making sure you know what he's capable of.
16. He Suddenly Becomes Very Helpful
Someone that wants to play it cool around you will always want to help you out. Maybe it's moving something or just knowing the answer to your questions. Someone will want to be helpful to you if they like you.
17. He Keeps Conversations Going
Once the conversation dies out, they will try to ask you another question. Someone who likes you will always want to continue the conversation with you. Even if they're acting like they don't.
18. He Gets a Little Awkward Around You
Playing it cool can get a person nervous. You may notice someone stutter or even forget what they were trying to say. If they're playing it cool and act this way, you should pay attention to it.
19. He Pretends He Doesn't Care About Your Opinion
He may casually ask what you think about something while acting like your answer doesn't matter much. Then he'll actually listen carefully and sometimes adjust what he's doing based on what you said. That combination of pretending not to care while clearly caring can be a pretty funny contradiction.
20. He Finds an Excuse to Talk to You Again
Someone who is trying to play it cool will try to find reasons to text you. Whether it's about something you both laughed at, or maybe asking you a pointless question. This is another way someone will try to talk to you while acting like they don't.
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