It Must Be Love
Relationships can be hard work, but that doesn't mean they're not worth it. Putting in the effort to make sure your partner feels loved can be both rewarding and fulfilling for the couple as a whole. When both parties do their part, it's the best feeling in the world! If you want to experience this kind of love, here are 20 small acts you can do that always keep couples happy.
1. Giving A Kiss Goodbye
Before you both part for the day, a quick kiss goodbye is a comforting and sweet way to show your love. It clearly demonstrates that you have each other in mind before you leave, and can be a part of a loving morning ritual that boosts your mood.
2. Saying I Love You
It's easy to forget just how important these three little words are when you say them so often, but don't let that ruin the meaning. Saying "I love you" regularly is something everyone wants to hear, so make sure your partner does. It's the simplest, most straightforward way of expressing your heartfelt love.
3. Washing Their Dishes For Them
The next time you're getting up to wash your dishes, why not grab your partners too? It's a small act, but a kind one. And it's even more considerate if you know they've been through a long, hard day. Actions, no matter how tiny, can at times speak more than words.
4. Letting Them Pick What To Watch
Sometimes couples have different interests in shows and movies, making choosing the right thing to watch a more difficult task than planned. Even if it's not what you want, sometimes giving up your choice for the sake of your partner is a thoughtful gesture they'll give back in return.
5. Surprise Gifts
Nothing screams "it made me think of you" more than a surprise gift to make your partner smile. It doesn't have to be big, in fact, it can cost nothing at all. It's truly the thought that counts and your significant other will appreciate it every time.
6. Random Hugs
Whether it's a back hug while you're washing dishes or a gentle good morning hug, this physical act is nothing but sweet and caring. It shows your partner that you're right there in the moment with them and love their presence. It's an "I love you" that's warm and wordless.
7. Regular Date Nights
Just because you're married or have been dating for years doesn't give you an excuse to stop going on dates. That's what keeps the magic alive! Even if it's been ten years since you first got together, treat every outing like it's the first. Plan something you both enjoy, be present, and create beautiful memories together.
8. Giving Each Other Alone Time
Wanting some alone time doesn't mean you're angry or hate your partner, it simply means you want some space - which every couple should honor. In fact, alone time is crucial to any happy relationship; it means that you're both able to be independent and respect boundaries.
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9. Asking How Their Day Was
Simply asking your partner how their day was shows that you care and are interested in what they do on a daily basis. Being in a relationship means being invested in each other, and this is a quick and simple way to show that.
10. Telling Them They Look Nice
Everyone loves compliments and your partner isn't any different. No matter how much we don't care about how we look, it always feels nice hearing a "you look great" from your significant other. After all, we love knowing that they feel attracted to us.
11. Sharing Fun Stories
Did something funny or interesting happen during the day? Partners love it when they're the first person you tell. Whether it's immediately getting an excited call or rushing to tell you the moment they see you, sharing stories is a couple activity that allows for bonding.
12. Words of Encouragement
When you're going through a tough time or feel stressed, having your partner give you sweet words of encouragement can change your whole mood. Having someone you trust watch your back and cheer you on is the best mood lifter in the world.
13. Visiting Their Family
Everyone always says that family is one of the most important things in their life, so it's always a bonus when partners honor that. Visiting each other's families and hanging out with them in your free time is a sweet and thoughtful gesture that never goes unnoticed. It shows that you're here to make lasting relationships with everyone in your partner's life.
14. Cuddling Before Sleeping
Setting time aside for each other at any point during the day is crucial, but doing so right before sleeping is just plain endearing. It's a gentle and loving form of intimacy that makes you feel safe, protected, and loved before you doze off for the day.
15. Putting Phones Down When Talking
In today's digital age, phones take front and center during many conversations and meals. But with your significant other, making the effort to put it away and interact face-to-face is truly a sign of respect. Every moment spent together should be treated thoughtfully, and this simple gesture says it all.
16. Sending Each Other Memes
But when you're apart, phones can be a great way to stay connected. With social media being so present in many couple's lives, sending each other funny videos or memes is a fun and hassle-free way to enjoy each other's company while still being apart.
17. Checking In Throughout The Day
A simple, "How are you doing?" throughout the day can make any partner have butterflies. It lets you know your significant other is thinking of you and wants to talk. The best part? It takes no effort at all to send the message.
18. Doing Small Tasks Together
Going to get gas or pick up something quickly from the grocery store? If your partner wants to tag along just for fun, that's love right there. Even if it just means sitting in the car next to you, being together means everything to them - and that's something that's always appreciated and recognized.
19. Surprising Each Other With Food
We all know the quickest way to someone's heart is through their stomach, so showing up with an unexpected coffee or donut can be the best way to make your partner smile. If you know what they like, surprising them with it is guaranteed to give you extra brownie points.
20. Knowing Your Likes And Dislikes
Passing on an Italian restaurant because you don't like pasta, or choosing to go to the beach because you love lounging around is your partner's way of telling you they know and love everything about you. It shows they're considerate of your likes and dislikes, and that they put you first before their own interests.
